Safety PlanningSafety planning for someone involved in an abusive relationship is a necessary and important step. Planning can be used while you are still with your abuser or after the relationship has ended. While still in an abusive relationship, your safety is of primary importance.A Safety plan can be made with the help of a domestic violence advocate. An advocate may be reached 24 hours a day by calling 360 385-5291.
If you are still in the relationship:
If you have left the relationship:
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Teach your children emergency action: How to call 911
How to escape the house during violence Safe places to go (neighbor or friend’s house) ITEMS TO TAKE, IF POSSIBLE Children (if it is safe) Money Keys to car, house, work Extra clothes Medicine Important papers for you and your children Birth certificates Social security cards School and medical records Bankbooks, credit cards Driver's license Car registration Welfare identification Passports, green cards, work permits Lease/rental agreement Mortgage payment book, unpaid bills Insurance papers PPO, divorce papers, custody orders Address book Pictures, jewelry, things that mean a lot to you Items for your children (toys, blankets, etc.) WARNING: Abusers try to control their victim's lives. When abusers feel a loss of control - like when victims try to leave them - the abuse often gets worse. Take special care when you leave. Keep being careful even after you have left. |
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